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📚 The BlissfulMarriage Academy Book Collection

Equipping Singles & Couples to Build God-Centered, Trust-Filled Marriages

At The BlissfulMarriage Academy, we believe that strong marriages don’t just happen; they are built with wisdom, intentionality, and God’s guidance. Our collection of books is designed to support you at every stage of your journey: from singleness to preparation, and from the wedding altar to a thriving, purpose-driven marriage.

This is an overview of the powerful resources available to you:

1️⃣ Finding Your God-Ordained Partner ©

Your Journey to Love, Purpose, and Divine Connection
This book is for singles who are ready to move beyond confusion and heartbreak into clarity. Learn how to discern God’s voice, recognize unhealthy patterns, and wait with wisdom for the partner God has prepared for you.

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2️⃣ Positioned to Be Chosen©

Becoming the Woman Who Attracts the Right Partner
Marriage preparation begins with becoming. This guide helps women embrace healing, identity, and purpose so that they are positioned to be chosen for the right reasons, not out of desperation or pressure.

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3️⃣ The Marriage Blueprint©

Laying the Right Foundations for a Blissful Marriage
Every lasting structure begins with a blueprint. This book provides practical and spiritual foundations for building a marriage that can weather storms and thrive through seasons, rooted in God’s original design.

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4️⃣ The 5 Marital Landmines©

Avoiding the Hidden Dangers That Destroy Marriages
Many marriages don’t fail because of one big mistake, but because of silent, unaddressed issues that grow over time. This resource uncovers five of the most common “landmines” in marriage—and how to avoid them with wisdom and intentionality.

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5️⃣ Loving Your Spouse Through Dry Seasons©

How to Thrive When Feelings Fade
Marriage is not always filled with sparks and butterflies. This book teaches couples how to navigate emotional droughts with grace, practical steps, and God’s Word, turning dry seasons into opportunities for growth and deeper connection.

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6️⃣ Marriage Is Teamwork©

Building a Kingdom Marriage with Purpose
Marriage is not a competition—it’s a partnership. This book equips couples to embrace unity, purpose, and collaboration, reminding them that together they can build not just a happy home, but a lasting kingdom legacy.

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7️⃣ Why You Marry Who You Don’t Trust©

Understanding the Silent Patterns That Lead to Painful Choices
So many people ignore red flags and walk down the aisle with someone they cannot trust. This book digs deep into the emotional, spiritual, and societal reasons why, and shows both singles and couples how to heal, rebuild, and choose differently.

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 Why These Books Matter

Each of these resources is more than just a book; they are roadmaps. They combine biblical wisdom, practical tools, and heart-level insights to guide you whether you’re single, preparing for marriage, or already married but seeking healing and renewal.

At The BlissfulMarriage Academy, our mission is to see individuals and couples move from confusion to clarity, from brokenness to healing, and from survival to thriving love.

✨ Because marriage isn’t just about two people—it’s about building a legacy with God at the center.

These are short blurbs for each book in The BlissfulMarriage Academy collection. Each is brief, engaging, and optimized for online listings:

📖 Finding Your God-Ordained Partner ©

Are you tired of confusion, wrong relationships, and waiting without clarity? Finding Your God-Ordained Partner shows you how to discern God’s voice, avoid counterfeits, and prepare your heart for the love He has designed. A must-read for singles who want a marriage rooted in faith, purpose, and divine alignment.

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📖 Positioned to Be Chosen©

Before you’re chosen, you must be positioned. This book empowers women to heal from past wounds, embrace their true identity, and prepare for marriage with wisdom. Positioned to Be Chosen will help you become the woman who attracts—not chases—the right kind of love.

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📖 The Marriage Blueprint ©

Strong marriages aren’t built by accident—they’re built with intention. The Marriage Blueprint offers spiritual and practical foundations for couples who want to create a love that lasts. Whether you’re preparing for marriage or already married, this guide is your roadmap to building on solid ground.

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📖 The 5 Marital Landmines©

Many marriages don’t collapse overnight—they slowly crumble from hidden dangers. In The 5 Marital Landmines, you’ll uncover the subtle issues that sabotage love, intimacy, and trust, and learn proven strategies to disarm them before they destroy your relationship.

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📖 Loving Your Spouse Through Dry Seasons©

What do you do when the spark fades? In Loving Your Spouse Through Dry Seasons, you’ll discover how to navigate emotional droughts, renew intimacy, and reconnect with God and your spouse. A refreshing guide for couples who want to not just survive, but thrive, in every season.

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📖 Marriage Is Teamwork©

Marriage is not a competition—it’s a covenant partnership. In Marriage Is Teamwork, you’ll learn how to build unity, share purpose, and strengthen your relationship through collaboration and love. Perfect for couples who want to create a kingdom-centered marriage that lasts.

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📖 Why You Marry Who You Don’t Trust©

Why do so many people say “I do” to partners they can’t fully trust? Why You Marry Who You Don’t Trust uncovers the hidden reasons, from emotional wounds to societal pressures, and shows you how to break the cycle. A powerful resource for singles seeking wisdom and couples seeking healing.

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A comparison table will make it super clear which book fits each reader’s journey. Here’s a clean version you can use for The BlissfulMarriage Academy website, Substack, or promotional material:


The BlissfulMarriage Academy Book Guide

Book Title Focus Area Who It’s For Key Outcome
Finding Your God-Ordained Partner © Discernment, waiting, divine alignment Singles seeking clarity about marriage Learn how to recognize God’s choice and avoid counterfeits
Positioned to Be Chosen© Healing, identity, preparation Single women preparing for purposeful love Become whole, confident, and ready for the right partner
The Marriage Blueprint© Foundations, preparation, God’s design Engaged or married couples Build marriage on solid spiritual and practical foundations
The 5 Marital Landmines© Conflict, hidden dangers, and marriage stability Married couples (new & seasoned) Identify and disarm the subtle issues that sabotage love
Loving Your Spouse Through Dry Seasons© Emotional drought, intimacy, renewal Married couples facing disconnection Rekindle intimacy, restore connection, and thrive in every season
Marriage Is Teamwork© Unity, purpose, collaboration Couples at any stage Embrace partnership, strengthen bonds, and build a kingdom marriage
Why You Marry Who You Don’t Trust© Red flags, trust, and emotional healing Singles & couples struggling with trust Understand patterns, heal wounds, and build trust-centered love

✨ This table gives you a clear path: whether you’re single, preparing, or already married, there’s a resource for you.

About The BlissfulMarriage Academy©

The BlissfulMarriage Academy exists to equip Christian singles and couples with the wisdom, tools, and support they need to build Christ-centered, emotionally thriving, and purpose-driven relationships.

We believe marriage is not just about companionship—it’s a covenant designed to reflect God’s love and advance His kingdom. Our mission is to help believers heal from past wounds, discover their God-given identity, and cultivate relationships rooted in faith, intimacy, and purpose.

Through our coaching programs, courses, books, and devotionals, we guide individuals through every stage of the journey—from singleness to thriving marriage:

💠 Chosen for Love and Marriage™ – identity restoration and healing before love
💠 Purpose Before Partner™ – clarity of life purpose before pursuing relationships
💠 Finding Your God-Ordained Partner© – biblical wisdom for choosing God’s best
💠 Pathway to Blissful Marriage™ – practical steps to strengthen communication, intimacy, and unity
💠 The Blissful Marriage System™ – our signature framework for helping couples thrive emotionally, spiritually, and relationally

Our work is anchored in faith, emotional healing, and practical application. We don’t just teach principles—we equip singles and couples with actionable strategies that transform their relationships and marriages.

Founded by Oyediya Nwojo Akudinobi, marriage and relationship coach, speaker, and author, The BlissfulMarriage Academy is committed to raising a generation of singles and couples who thrive in love, purpose, and covenant.

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